Blueprint for conversations that matter
THE 3 RULES SOLUTION
David Mashburn Ph.D
3 RULES
In my 37 years as a Clinical Psychologist, I’ve identified 3 Rules that have the power to reshape both ourselves and the dynamics of crucial conversations in which we engage. These rules enlist the better parts of who we are and what we are trying to achieve together. They eliminate the confusion of a thousand bits of relationship skills, strategies, or advice and provide a go-to anchor for every conversation.
The PODCAST
You don’t Need Relationship Advice, You Need Relationship Rules; Welcome to the exploration of a powerful framework that will transform your ability to navigate and influence the conversations that truly make a difference.
We will unravel the intricacies of each rule, delving into the conditions that define them and unveil the art of their practical application. This is not just a guide; it's a profound shift that promises to not only reshape your perspective but also leave an indelible mark on those you collaborate with.
Prepare yourself for a voyage of self-discovery, where these principles cease to be mere concepts and become catalysts for change in both your professional and personal lives. Join me on this transformative journey, forging connections and unlocking potentials along the way.
We Need Rules, Not Advice
Conflict skills and strategies rarely work when you need them most. We are no match for the unconscious forces that exist behind every difficult conversation. These Rules enable you to bypass your blindspots (we all have them) and have rational conversations around things that matter most. Don’t wait to start learning and using them. Consider this as a great alternative to Leadership Training, Team development, and Couples/Family counseling- Learn and practice 3 Rules.
What are the 3 Rules?
What are the 3 Rules?
1. ASSUME THE BEST
2. SET ASIDE ANGER & FEAR
3. DIRECT & DRAMA-FREE CONVERSATION
Learn & Practice the 3 Rules
Conflict made simple for the outcome you seek
Relationships are inherently difficult. No amount of skill or strategy is powerful enough to cut through our worst reactions or simple enough to make them easier to understand. But relationships done right carry the power to change the world for the better.
Most people won't take the time to learn a entire philosophy to help them figure out how to do communication better. That's where these 3 rules come in: - a practical and effective set of guidelines that anyone can learn and apply to improve communication in high stakes decisions or everyday interactions- Across every conversation in any environment. The 3 rules provide a simple and accessible way to communicate effectively when the goal is bigger than ourselves. (and it always is)